The postpartum period, also known as the “fourth trimester,” is a time of immense joy, love, and bonding, but it can also bring sleep deprivation for new moms. After giving birth, a mother’s body needs recovery and rest, but the demands of a newborn can make getting enough sleep feel impossible. Babies don’t follow a regular sleep pattern, and their needs can disrupt a mom’s ability to get a restful night’s sleep. Sleep deprivation can lead to feelings of exhaustion, frustration, and even contribute to postpartum depression.

A baby has no set sleep schedule; they will sleep whenever they want, and when they are hungry, they will wake up at any time. In short, babies do not have a routine for sleep. A mother has to adjust according to the baby’s needs, which is why new moms often struggle to get proper rest. The postpartum period is a very crucial time for a new mom, and getting enough rest is essential. Here are some tips that helped me when I was in this situation, and I hope they will help you too.

 However, with some planning, strategies, and a bit of self-care, new moms can manage better sleep during this challenging time. Here are some effective sleep solutions to help you rest and recover after childbirth.

1. Sleep When the Baby Sleeps

This is perhaps the most common advice for new moms, and for good reason: babies sleep in short bursts throughout the day and night. Their sleep cycles are much shorter than adults, usually ranging from 2 to 4 hours. Instead of trying to stay awake when your baby is napping, take advantage of these moments to rest. Even short naps can help reduce the accumulated sleep deficit and improve your energy levels.

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• Avoid using baby naptime to catch up on household chores. Prioritize sleep over tasks like laundry or cleaning. Ask for help with these chores if needed.

2. Share Responsibilities With Your Partner or a Support Person

If possible, share nighttime duties with your partner, family member, or a close friend. Even breastfeeding moms can pump milk in advance so that their partner can handle a nighttime feeding. Sharing the load allows both parents to get at least some uninterrupted sleep, which can make a huge difference in how rested you feel.

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• Consider rotating shifts for nighttime care. For instance, one person could be responsible for the baby during the first half of the night, and the other person can take over in the early morning.

3. Create a Restful Sleep Environment

When you do get the opportunity to sleep, ensure your environment is conducive to rest. A dark, quiet, and cool room can help you fall asleep faster and sleep more deeply. Invest in blackout curtains, white noise machines, or earplugs to minimize disruptions. Make sure your bed and pillows are comfortable, and avoid screens (such as phones or tablets) before bedtime, as the blue light can interfere with your sleep.

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• Dim the lights an hour before you plan to sleep to signal your body that it’s time to rest. This can help you relax more quickly when your head hits the pillow.

4. Power Naps: Short and Sweet

If you’re unable to get long stretches of sleep, power naps can be lifesavers. A 20 to 30-minute nap can be surprisingly restorative and help you recharge. Don’t stress about getting several hours of sleep in one go; instead, focus on napping whenever you get the chance.

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• Use a timer or set an alarm for 20-30 minutes to ensure you don’t oversleep. Napping too long can leave you feeling groggy rather than refreshed.

5. Build a Nighttime Routine for the Baby

While newborns may not follow a set schedule, you can start establishing a nighttime routine early on. A consistent bedtime routine—such as a warm bath, gentle massage, feeding, and dim lighting—can signal to your baby that it’s time for sleep. Over time, this routine may help your baby settle more easily at night, giving you more opportunities to rest.

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• Be patient, as it can take a few months for a baby to develop a consistent sleep pattern. In the meantime, focus on creating a calming bedtime ritual that works for both you and your baby.

6. Consider Co-Sleeping Options

Co-sleeping can be a controversial topic, but when done safely, it can allow you to get more sleep by reducing the need to fully wake up for night feedings. If you choose to co-sleep, follow safe sleep guidelines, such as using a co-sleeper bassinet next to your bed or placing your baby in their own sleep space within your bedroom. This way, you can attend to your baby quickly without getting out of bed.

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• Avoid bringing your baby into bed if you’re extremely sleep-deprived or if there are risk factors such as soft bedding or loose pillows. Always prioritize safe sleeping arrangements.

7. Prioritize Self-Care and Healthy Habits

Taking care of yourself is crucial during the postpartum period, even when it feels like there’s no time for it. Eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and getting light exercise when you’re able (such as going for a walk) can all contribute to better sleep quality. Physical activity helps relieve stress and boosts endorphins, which can improve your mood and energy levels.

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• Even if you can’t do a full workout, try doing some gentle stretches or yoga during the day to relax your muscles and help ease tension, which can make it easier to fall asleep.

8. Seek Help for Postpartum Depression or Anxiety

Sleep deprivation can take a toll on mental health. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or persistently sad, you may be experiencing postpartum depression or anxiety. It’s important to seek help from your healthcare provider if these feelings persist, as untreated postpartum depression can affect both your mental health and your ability to care for your baby.

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• Don’t hesitate to reach out to family, friends, or a counselor for support. Emotional well-being is just as important as physical health, especially during this delicate time.

9. Embrace Flexibility

Your baby’s sleep patterns will continue to change as they grow, and it’s important to remain flexible. Some nights, you might be able to get longer stretches of sleep, while other nights may involve frequent wakings. Try to go with the flow and avoid getting frustrated when your baby’s sleep doesn’t match your expectations.

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• Focus on progress, not perfection. Any small steps toward better sleep—whether for you or your baby—are wins worth celebrating.

10. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

As a new mom, it’s easy to feel like you need to do everything yourself, but this can lead to burnout. Whether it’s a family member coming over to help with the baby, a friend running errands for you, or a partner taking on more responsibilities, asking for help is crucial to getting the rest you need.

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• Build a support network early on. Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends or loved ones when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

The postpartum period can be exhausting, but with the right strategies in place, you can find ways to rest and recharge. Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important as caring for your baby. By getting creative with sleep solutions and asking for help when you need it, you can find balance and make this special time a little more restful.

Sleep deprivation won’t last forever, and soon, you’ll settle into a routine that allows both you and your baby to thrive. Ta-Da!